Find clarity
“Why can’t I figure it out already?”
You’re smart, creative, and resourceful. Problem-solving and complex thinking are among your strengths, and you’re used to performing at a high level. You’re skilled at pinpointing an issue, breaking it down, and working through it pretty successfully.
So why can’t you solve what’s plaguing you emotionally or in your relationships? Why do you keep running in the same circles or falling into the same habits, even when you know it’s not serving you? What gives?
It may be hard to believe, but our most troubling habits and patterns began as strategies that once helped us deal with challenging or even dangerous circumstances. If you’re neurodivergent, they might be how you’ve coped in the world this whole time. The difficulties that burden you now—like rumination, self-defeating behaviors, relationship problems, overwork and burnout—actually helped you survive in the past. And because they helped you survive, it takes more than just understanding and willpower to unravel them. It takes deeper work that engages the body as well as the mind.
However exhausting or distressing, the issues you struggle with were once the most adaptive solutions your mind and body could find in painful or traumatizing situations. They may be confusing or paradoxical, but they can make sense. And together, we can find your way through them.
I use multiple modalities (like IFS and EMDR) to help high achievers and neurodivergent adults work through anxiety and trauma to find clarity, relief, and self-assurance. Learn more about my services and how I work, or get in touch to see if we’d be a good fit!
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Integrative and holistic therapy delivered virtually in California
Cary Ann Rosko, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, MFC #96606
Get unstuck
Feel more ease, balance, and purpose
We absorb a lot over the course of a lifetime, some of it consciously and some of it very unconsciously. Therapy is where we can examine what you’ve internalized and tap into your strengths and innate wisdom to evolve or release what isn’t serving you anymore. There are legit reasons why you feel tangled up, and investigating the cognitive, emotional, somatic, and environmental factors that brought you here lights the path towards getting untangled.
What I Offer
I help high achievers and neurodivergent adults reduce their anxiety, increase self-compassion, improve their relationships, and work through trauma. Learn more about my areas of focus and what goes into successful treatment.
Nice to meet you
My style is warm, conversational, and collaborative. I’m here to support your growth and healing with active engagement, curiosity, and expertise. I bring a high level of integrity and conscientiousness to my work, as well as a bit of humor. Read on for more of my story—
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